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How to Smile When Things are Shit

How to smile when things are shit

Sometimes I go through phases of feeling down 90% of the time. A bad week. Or a bad few weeks. And that’s okay. Everyone goes through times where they feel down a little too often, it’s important that people know that. After a while of feeling down, certain activities start to feel a bit pointless and you can lose motivation to do much. Here are few little tips to try and fix that.

Listen to HAIM
HAIM’s new album is as god damn flawless as the last one and it has such spring-seasonal, empowering vibes to it. It’s AMAZING. The songs on this album make me want to wear mom jeans and skip through fields. ‘Something to tell you’ is definitely a good source of smiling when you’re feeling down! And if HAIM isn’t your thing (it should be), go for another light-hearted band that you know and love. Maybe even head to Spotify and find some new artists within a genre you enjoy. Music is great therapy.

Sing really loudly, especially in the shower.
I think most people probably do this one anyway, but singing in the shower is an oddly simple yet effective source of happiness. When you’re feeling really down, it can be difficult to force yourself to do things like this. It seems silly and pointless. But once you’ve done it, you’ll be glad you did. Singing in the shower disconnects you from real life for a little while. Just focus on washing your hair and singing the lyrics, it’ll take you away for a moment or two.

Remember to dance too.
But if you’re going to do that one in the shower, do so with caution

Enthusiasm
Act like that Phoebe’s boyfriend from friends who Alec Baldwin played. The one who thinks EVERYTHING IS AMAZING.

Sometimes faking it until you’re making it actually kind of works? For me, when it’s hard to feel a enthusiastic about everything, manically becoming excited about tiny things, like your toast finally popping up or wearing nice underwear, will get your happy juices flowing. You might feel like a twat at first, but I promise it works! Go and try it. Open up your fridge, drink a glass of orange juice and shout “WOW, HOW ZESTY. WHAT A TIME TO BE ALIVE!”

 

Treat yourself
Don’t spend a thousand pounds on ASOS (unless you have that kind of vast disposable income) but do treat yourself to something you wouldn’t usually buy. Head to your local shop and buy a chocolate pudding. Grab a magazine you used to like but haven’t read for a while. Something seemingly invaluable that will help you to relax and you can get lost in it for a little while – even a colouring book might be an idea.

Have a Pamper Evening
Plan and carry out an evening pamper session, either solo or with a group of friends (it works either way). Popping a face mask on, using all your favourite skin care items and shaving your legs gives you the feeling of getting yourself together. Pampering is an act of self-care for a lot people, and self-care is absolutely key to retrieving your smile when everything feels negative. I’ll be writing a blog post on the steps I take to having a solo relaxing night in soon so look out for that.

Get creative
This can really be anything. Everyone has different ideas of what ‘creative’ means to them. Personally, I think for the best chance of therapy through art and growing a smile, it needs to be something technology-less and using your hands. Sure, blogging or other online hobbies are creative, but I’ve found that putting away the devices and just using yourself and what’s around you is much more grounding. I like to whip out a journal and draw little doodles. I also like to write random semantic fields or lines of poetry. This just puts me in a good headspace.

I hope these tips help you to feel happier. Try applying them to your routine and let me know if you see improvement! If you have any of your own tips for growing a smile, leave them down below! We can all help one another.

 

 

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12 Comments

  • Reply
    Sarah
    July 21, 2017 at 6:29 pm

    Pamper evenings are so important xx

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      Beth
      July 22, 2017 at 12:40 am

      Cannot agree enough! xx

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    Kayleigh Zara
    July 23, 2017 at 10:09 am

    I totally agree that pampering yourself can be so important, I particularly like to treat myself and have a nice relaxing evening with a bath x

    Kayleigh Zara 🌿www.kayleighzaraa.com

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      Beth
      August 17, 2017 at 9:25 pm

      It’s more important than people realise! & that sounds perfect! xx

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    Giana Spiteri
    July 24, 2017 at 12:05 pm

    this is a great post to look back on or when you need a little pick me up! Sometimes even writing it yourself allows you to take your own advice xx

    G

    http://www.teawithgi.com

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      Beth
      August 17, 2017 at 9:24 pm

      thank you! & that’s so true xx

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    Harriet
    July 26, 2017 at 8:35 am

    I love this post, it’s perfect to help pick someone up. So glad you’re shared it, shows how strong you are!

    • Reply
      Beth
      August 17, 2017 at 9:03 pm

      thank you so much xx

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    Alisha Valerie
    August 1, 2017 at 12:53 pm

    Life for me right now it’s so stressful so this blog post was just what I needed. Thank you for sharing beautiful! 🌸💗✨

    With love, Alisha Valerie. x
    http://www.AlishaValerie.com | http://www.twitter.com/AlishaValerie

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      Beth
      August 2, 2017 at 12:01 pm

      You are welcome! And I hope you manage the stress and things improve! xx

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    Becks
    August 2, 2017 at 12:51 am

    Always feel better after having a sing song and a little dance. Dont know why but it always works without a doubt.

    Becks x

    • Reply
      Beth
      August 2, 2017 at 11:59 am

      I feel the same way!

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